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Where are we meeting again?   10/13/2004

Where do most friends that have met on AdultFriendFinder go for first dates? I have heard that you want to stay in public, but what if things go really great the meeting progresses to some heavy action? Seems like you could find yourself in loads of trouble out in public, or is that part of the excitement? It’s not like we are all teenagers humping in the back of the two-door.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
What 2 wear   10/11/2004

What should you wear on a first date?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_bman_reno 40 M
4  Articles
Guys: Learn to dance   10/8/2004

I've discovered that a great way to impress a girl is if you're willing to take her out dancing. Most girls love it but far fewer guys are willing to do it, especially younger guys. Taking her out to a club is a great first date and who knows, maybe you'll get lucky


1 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,5.73 Score
Newbe   10/3/2004

Girls, what is a fun creative first date that a guy has taken you on that you really enjoyed?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
There is no right way to handle it   10/1/2004

When you become a member of a site like this one, it is generally assumed that you're looking primarily for sex. If we can take this as a given, it would also be safe to assume that those who are fellow members will be equipped for the task. That's only logical, right? Color me astonished recently when this proved not to be the case. Over the couple of months of my membership here, I've had ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
rm_diesel2005 43 C
10  Articles
What Not To Do On First Dates .   9/24/2004

1. Dont spend most of the time talking about yourself, matter of fact, if your one of those people your better off not saying anything. 2.Dont spend most of your time chit-chatting on your cell phone, especially when the other person is trying to hold a conversation with u, if u r one of these people your better off leaving ur celly at home. 3.This one is very important so listen up ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 42 Votes ,4.85 Score
Is this really considered 'dating'?   9/23/2004

There are so many articles on this site about dating, questions and advice from a miriad of things from first date do's and dont's, having fun on a date, etc... But really, "AdultFriendFinder - The worlds largest sex~personals site" Pretty much sums up what we're all looking for here doesn't it?... So, if you're looking for a 'date' movie, dinner, whatever; wrong site. Looking for a ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 30 Votes ,6.18 Score
We couldn't take our hands off each other!   9/13/2004

I had met this guy named James on line and we decieded to meet up. I picked a local bar down from my house. Since it was steaming hot outside I wore my wife beater with no bra and a short black skirt with no panties. I told James I would have a pink carnation in my hair so he would know it was me. When I walked into the bar all eyes were on me. My nipples were hard as hell and popping out ...


0 Comments, 267 Views, 147 Votes ,7.62 Score
They night we made love   9/13/2004

It started slowly, just some e-mails, a little IMing, mostly fun, playful, erotic, indulging in a fantasy, sharing some smiles. One day you wrote and said that you’d be down in Florida and well maybe we could actually get together. <br> We decided on a date and I gave you directions to my home in Tampa. What a long three weeks waiting for that day to come!! Then a phone ...


0 Comments, 117 Views, 115 Votes ,8.48 Score
Guys Looking for Guys with the Word "Aggressive" in the Profile?   9/12/2004

I'm a guy looking for a guy. I came upon a profile that stated that this one guy was "aggressive". Immediately, I was wondering why the word describing this guy was aggressive. You other guys know that we are looking for a mellow guy that we can get along well with, right? Well, I emailed the guy and told him I liked his profile, but the word "aggressive" concerned me. I told him I could ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 29 Votes ,1.03 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
be safe   9/6/2004

If meeting someone for the first time, especially a woman meeting a man, please inform someone of your location and also meet in a public place. Bring a cell phone if you have one. Be safe.


1 Comments, 26 Views, 33 Votes ,8.56 Score
I am sort of confused   8/26/2004

Ok i meet this guy when i was shopping with my cousin.I wasn't ugly or anything so i took his number.I called him the same night and we ended up going to the movies.He asked me if he can taste me so i let him.I have a boyfriend and he has a gurl.We had sex about 5 times.I like him alot now and i want more with him but how can i find out if he feels the same about me


0 Comments, 229 Views, 30 Votes ,1.97 Score
Ultimate first meeting   8/20/2004

We begin the usual way, exchanging emails here and there, then came more photographs, and soon we were talking on the phone. His voice was pleasant. It was a turn on just listening to his voice. When he had to go out of town, he called me when he was available to let me know he was thinking of me. I really enjoyed that. Phone sex was the next step. I am usually not crazy about that, but ...


1 Comments, 77 Views, 50 Votes ,7.65 Score
popcorn23 38 M
3  Articles
Nervous..!!!   8/18/2004

I always seem to forget how nervous it can be going on a 'First Date' with someone. Besides a casual hello or small talk it is pretty much going to dinner with a stranger. You don't know a lot about each other then just the basics like name, what you do for a living, where you live, etc. What makes it different I realized as I got ready this weekend for my date was that there is a nervous ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 46 Votes ,7.18 Score
Foxy1983 40 F
2  Articles
First 'Date' Jitters   8/6/2004

How do you have successful 'first date'? <br> Don't get me wrong, I have had 'first dates' but none that I would say went particularly well on the first meet. It's always been through telephone calls and e-mails that we have established a better relationship. <br> I've always found it to be quite difficult meeting up with someone for the first time, especially if as ...


1 Comments, 162 Views, 43 Votes ,5.65 Score
playmates4u3 62 C
2  Articles
Exploring my Bi side   7/9/2004

For years I had this attraction for certain women. I would just ignore the feelings or push them away.. Then my husband and I went to a strip club and oh my gawd...I was so turned on and excited.. At that moment I knew I had to explore these feelings...I answered an add that I found...This woman was beautiful.. we emailed for awhile and then started talking on the phone..Just hearing ...


2 Comments, 363 Views, 80 Votes ,9.12 Score
rm_enid55 68 F
2  Articles
first and last dates   6/30/2004

I met someone after only 2 days of being out here.I hadn't had sex for 6 years (masterbating not included) We had a couple of drinks went back to his place had incredible sex he made me come by just butterfly kissing my neck, rubbing and caressing my back and mutual masterbation I had three orgasms before he even entered me. I sat astride him and felt him deep within me and although he was ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
youngnightfreak 32 M
1  Article
interracial dating   6/8/2004

why is it so hard for a white male to date a black female but isn't hard for a black male to date a white female if u have an answer email me


1 Comments, 227 Views, 39 Votes ,4.78 Score
Cock Play at the Table   6/7/2004

We had met on a bus in NYC...chatted briefly, exchanged numbers. She looked like a supermodel. <br> We decided we'd meet for drinks then, from there, find a nearby restaurant. At the bar, a very chic place, we ended doing little actual drinking as the conversation swept us both away. Before I knew it we were kissing and her hands were roaming... <br> She told me, ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 55 Votes ,4.83 Score
Curious No More!   6/1/2004

i met this guy greg on line a week ago. we've exchanged tons of emails...lots of them are incredibly sensual. deep. brazen. detailed descriptions of sexual acts. very hot stuff. but we've never met. greg wanted to come to my house almost immediately...but i'm lost when it comes to these kinds of experiences. you see, i met greg on a gay web site. we're both bi-curious. he's had many ...


1 Comments, 357 Views, 122 Votes ,8.25 Score
tristim 42 F
3  Articles
First Older man--pt. III   5/30/2004

<br> <br> I see him come out of the bathroom and he's limp. I'm at first dissapointed, but as he enters, and I continue to masterbate, he slowly becomes hard again(after some oral coaxing of course). After he becomes fully ...


1 Comments, 874 Views, 124 Votes ,8.59 Score
carl500max 49 M
9  Articles
Age bar?????????   5/28/2004

Nothing wrong with contacting older men/ladies. I think a lot of the younger girl contacting older guy issue goes back to the 'training' Its hard to overcome societies ingrained taboos, not to mention the general fear, put into many a young womans mind, that an older guy is going to be a real 'psychotic perv' vs the partner they are seeking. It sux. But that seems to be the take. I would ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 59 Votes ,5.66 Score
His First Time Since Married - With Me!   5/23/2004

An especially exciting sexual experience for me was to be with a husband having sex with another girl for the first time since he was married. Even though his wife was the one that brought us together it was still an incredible thrill knowing that I was the first girl other than his wife that he had fucked since getting married over 20 years ago - before I was even born! <br> I ...


1 Comments, 530 Views, 175 Votes ,9.72 Score
rm_aztecri 74 M
1  Article
First Date, First Blow!   5/17/2004

I am a happily married man. Unfortunately, my wife contracted diabetes and along with her high blood pressure, the medications she takes for both has killed her libido. She, being the wonderful woman she is, agreed to allow me to "date" other women occaisionally as long as I do not tell her about my "other life" and I don't fall in love. I don't plan on doing either. However, my first ...


0 Comments, 1076 Views, 230 Votes ,9.04 Score
honesthotnsexy 58 F
1  Article
Can't guys/ gorls EVER just be honest?   5/12/2004

Correct me if I'm wrong here. And I do realize this subject is a two sided sword but I really am perplexed by it. You submit a profile to a web site on the hopes of finding what you are looking for and have been unable to find outside in your own prosimity so you turn to cyberspace to look. There are always several questions to answer so before someone contacts you they know something ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 40 Votes ,6.11 Score
My First Lesbian Experience   4/7/2004

I lost my virginity when I was 14 and fucked more than a few guys while I was in high school, but I always stuck to conventional one-on-one sex between a guy and a girl. I sometimes wondered what it would be like to be with a girl but the opportunity never arose and I never really pushed for one seeing how much I loved being fucked and sucking cock. <br> Last year I started going ...


0 Comments, 752 Views, 213 Votes ,9.05 Score
My First Time   4/1/2004

When I was a 14 year old I spent a weekend camping with Sharon and few other girlfriends. Sharon's 16 year old brother Steve also came with. He was pretty good looking but I had not even spoken to him before. My friends were also 14 and we wore skimpy bikinis the entire weekend which I knew were driving Steve nuts. Once I even caught him peeking out the camper window as we played around. ...


1 Comments, 811 Views, 187 Votes ,9.44 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
A slut ...,because you had sex on your 1st date? Hmmm..   3/8/2004

Now let me give you the best answer one could come up with :MAYBE ! To me you wouldn't be .I'd concider him a bit lazy because he couldn't think of something that saves you from feeling like it later but yet makes you have a wonderful time but since he might be human ...just like the ones to whom you would be a slut , I can't blame him for being a bit too overheated .That is called being ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 101 Votes ,4.42 Score
big women have big sex   2/22/2004

I went out to a country and western bar, looking for you know what. I remember one of the first women I saw was a 5 foot tall thick woman with a humongous set of tits at the front door kind of looking the men over as they came in, kind of like men will do sometimes looking for women. She did not have the prettiest face in the world, she was mostly tits and ass, and plenty of both. ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 67 Votes ,7.91 Score
Honcho7 76 M
0  Articles
My First Domination Date   2/1/2004

I communicated with a man I met through the internet and ended up meeting him about three weeks ago at a restaurant so we could see if we would be compatible. We are both in our early 60s and this was the first experience of this nature for both of us. He invited me over, and I visited him at his house last weekend. When I arrived, he was dressed as I had ordered ‒ black stockings ...


1 Comments, 244 Views, 46 Votes ,7.25 Score