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rm_sex22615 33 F
17  questions
Love or Lust - 2/7/2009

How would you react if you happen to have met your girlfriend in a private place on your very first date with her?? Many guys just don't control themselves, they try to provoke the girl and then 4get it if ever the girl had accepted.. Personally i think that if ever a guy is really interested with a girl, he will control his emotions whatever be place they meet.. It can just happen to be love ...

18 response(s), 22 votes
rm_sex22615 33 F
17  questions
To wait or not? - 2/7/2009

In a relationship for how long will you be able to wait to have sex if your partner is not ready for the time being? If you truly love her would you wait till she is ready for it?

10 response(s), 11 votes
classyscott50 58 M
4  questions
Why so many flirts from around the world? - 2/7/2009

I get more flirts from great looking young ladies from foreign countries than I get from inside the US. But I notice they didn't view my profile. Do they think that they can find a guy in the US that will 'rescue' them from their homeland or do they flirt with everybody to build up some kind of score or something? Is there a way to turn off international flirts but still allow US flirts? Why do ...

15 response(s), 15 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
nipples - 2/6/2009

so i have a serious question here i was talking to a female friend and i was telling her that some woman have more than two nipples,

now i know for a fact that its true but she don't believe me.

so how many of you woman out there have found and know you have more than two nipples,

and lets all try to be adults here and answer with dignity as i know most have

...

13 response(s), 16 votes
Viewing profiles. - 2/6/2009

Why is it:

1) That as a standard member I cannot view any profile from my work PC. I can surf the site ok but can't access any profile info. Just keeps directing me to the upgrade page.

2) When on the site on my laptop I can surf, view profiles etc on the site no problem.

3) This afternoon when I try to view a profile on my laptop it now directs me to the upgrade page. ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Tuff2187 37 M
10  questions
Oral Pain! - 2/6/2009

This question goes out to the guys. I love receiving oral, but my problem is after I cum the tip of my penis gets so sensitive I almost want to scream and tell her to stop. I know its not a health issue because a few of my buddies have told me the same......After getting oral, do any of you gents get real sensitive and almost a painful feeling on the tip of your ...

13 response(s), 12 votes
rm_otcdrgs 57 M
3  questions
Married Men-Responses from. Married Women, Your Take. - 2/6/2009

I am writing this in response to the question posted regarding ladies dating/seeing married men. The question I have goes out to the married ladies who mess around on there husbands. Do you have problems seeing married men? Secondly, do you women who think married men are bad really think we just go out of our way to wreck our marriages? I know this may sound a little rough, but as the saying ...

19 response(s), 18 votes
610301 59 M
1  question
Watch woman mastrubating - 2/6/2009

I love to watch a lady mastrubating but have a problem with my partner that she does not want to do this at all.We have great fun otherwise but this is the only thing she just cant get herself to do, is there anyway I can convince her or an article that she can read?

21 response(s), 27 votes
sweetntasty793 45 F
1  question
Dating - 2/6/2009

Do you ever find true love on here?

18 response(s), 18 votes
Love Swing - 2/6/2009

My woman was looking through an adult catalog and saw a love swing. Looked like it might be fun. Was wondering if anyone that has tried one can tell me their thoughts on using one and if they are worth the price.

7 response(s), 3 votes
hunnibunnz 37 F
4  questions
Is it not clear? - 2/6/2009

I have recently updated my profile to say I am NOT available at this time... It says "*I AM NO LONGER AVAILABLE FOR THE TIME BEING*" in large, bold letters. However, I still have been receiving multiple emails daily asking for hook-ups and whatnot. I would turn my profile off, except that I am semi-active in the AL and I want people who are reading my responses to be able to look at my profile if ...

17 response(s), 18 votes
rm_Phoenix_TA 35 M
1  question
Question for Women Only... - 2/5/2009

So yeah.. I ask this question very honestly, I don't seem to get any responses to my profile and not just on here, but other sites as well.. SO I post this question to women only.. What's the deal? Honestly? am I that unattractive? is it something I said.. why is it no one ever messages me or responds to my emails.. I'm just really curious, I mean if I'm not ugly, then what do I fix to make my ...

12 response(s), 9 votes
Rocklincpl06 63 C
12  questions
How to Explain your New Friends to Family and Vanilla friends - 2/5/2009

Ok so we were wondering what do you tell your family and non swinging friends how you met your new Playmates. Planning on having a party and just wanted to get some creative ideas on how to introduce our Playmates to others. Thanks R&B

24 response(s), 21 votes
classyscott50 58 M
4  questions
Different kinds of clits - 2/5/2009

This may sound dumb but I've heard there are different kinds of clits with 'hooded' being the most common. What other kinds are there? I've really never noticed (maybe I've been with the same woman too long to remember). I like clits and thought they were all basically the same - some just stuck out farther than others. Am I missing something obvious?

12 response(s), 13 votes
ThickWoody2 37 M
1  question
Love, Lust, and Happiness - 2/5/2009

Okay, so here goes. It’s late night and I find myself alone again. It’s not that I’m a loser or that I can’t meet women. I did however spend seven years dating whom I thought I was destined to spend my forever with. That’s counting off and on for five years during undergrad, grad school, and some time here in D.C. In the end it was my sexual desires that condemned us. I’m not proud of ...

6 response(s), 10 votes
Married - 2/5/2009

Do many married women ever want younger men to fuck without questions?

23 response(s), 28 votes
SHAVED OR NOT - 2/5/2009

which do you prefer as for my self i think shaved is best i feel it looks better nice to touch and when having oral sex no hairs in the mouth and i like to use my tongue a lot, ,, , so why not have your say , ,, ,, ,, ,

13 response(s), 22 votes
wifeyndsagf26 38 F
1  question
Why is it when..... - 2/5/2009

Why is it when talking about how many people you have been sexually active with people think if a woman has been with a large amount of men she is considered a "slut" but when a man says he has been with a bunch of partners it seems to be ok??

7 response(s), 10 votes
Swankie57 65 M
56  questions
Is it better to look good or feel good? - 2/5/2009

Question: Is it better to look good or feel good? Well I’m sick with a bad cold or something called pleurisy, who the fuck knows because I dressed to pick up a babe not dress for 10 degree cold! Earlier that day, looking dapper in my CSI Miami Horatio Cane Black suit, black shirt with white pinstripes - I knew that I was untouchable! I closed in shaking from the cold, she sensed my body ...

7 response(s), 15 votes
Pale_luna 32 F
3  questions
positions - 2/5/2009

i was injured and cant put any weight on one knee for a while. im finding that this is kinda a bumber when it comes to sex. cause i never put anything thought into just how many things i like doing that i end up on my knees. any positions suggestions that dont require me putting weight on my knee?

9 response(s), 6 votes
Zane492 66 M
1  question
Sexual Preferences - 2/5/2009

OK, we all know this is primarily a sex site with boundaries, considerations and limitations. So do we ask early on what are the sexual preferences (likes, dislikes, do's and dont's, etc.) of the other(s) involved? Or do we go through a lot of time and mental energy and drawing our own conclusions what the other(s) like or expect? A penny for your thoughts.

38 response(s), 23 votes
rm_milehi63 61 M
6  questions
jizz without an orgasm? - 2/5/2009

ok , here's a new one to me. the other day my wife was giving me a blowjob with her usual amazing skill...keeping me on the edge of an orgasm for what seems like hours before letting me squirt when she gave the ending squeeze to my cock and quit. when i asked why, she said she had already swallowed 2 medium sized loads and figured i was done. what!? not once did i feel the contractions and ...

18 response(s), 14 votes
PASSIONATEPANACH 71 M
7  questions
3 Months? - 2/5/2009

I live in an area where most of the women haven't been on site for 3 months. Is this true in other areas?

15 response(s), 18 votes
rm_crxed186 30 M
1  question
is it ok to be young and male on here - 2/4/2009

It sorta seems like being a single young male on here leads to no interaction at all i mean its not like im sending girls and couples messages like ( I wanna fuck your wife like an animal) i mean it just doesnt seem right that people dont want anything to do with me if anyone can see what my problem is please get back to me with it.



Your all beautiful people in your own way...

14 response(s), 18 votes
Goodtimes24724 38 M
2  questions
Condoms - 2/4/2009

What kind of condoms do you ladies prefer? I dont mean just Trojan or Duramax (but i am interested if that matters to you). I am looking for the type such as: her pleasure, extended pleasure, extra thin, spermicidal, etc.

9 response(s), 15 votes
how many - 2/4/2009

how many thin ppl out there would want to be with a big person or big couple?
i don't ask for ant reason or to make anyone mad just want to know

2 response(s), 1 vote
rm_MANndsLVnMD 49 M
1  question
Thongs. Read some where they are going out of style... - 2/4/2009

Hello Read in a mans magazine the other day thongs are going out of style and a new version of granny panties are coming back in... I know the garters are very rare with the Ladies but please don't take away the thongs...What do you guys think?

28 response(s), 16 votes
longstemrose2 51 F
4  questions
Would you make a home video tape you and a partner going at it? - 2/4/2009

My friend came over with his 1980's video camcorder and taped us...feels silly to watch it...maybe i'll get over it...but had fun...

So have you made one?? Do want to make one?? Got some ideas to further explore this idea??

25 response(s), 21 votes
rm_AdaraLehava 40 F
1  question
what do i do? - 2/4/2009

theres this guy who says he knows me but i have no idea who he is.this has been our conversation :> C I S enough talk what r u willing to do to keep this info to myself! --------------------------------------------------- > Sender: AdaraLehava > To: olbigun69 > Date: Sep 11, 2008 7:23 am PST > > > --------------------------------------------------- > > Sender: olbigun69 > > To: AdaraLehava > > ...

24 response(s), 20 votes
rm_quizzy99 39 M
1  question
hairy chest or shaved chest? what do women prefer? - 2/4/2009

just wondering?

29 response(s), 20 votes