[COLOR indigo][SIZE 2][B]We are a happily married couple seeking other couples for friendship and fun. Friendship is the most important aspect of the relationship. We are not into one night stands, so please if you are looking for one do not contact us. Now for a little about us...He is a truck driver who works locally and I am a secretary at a local college and a student. We work and play hard since it isn't always easy finding time to play. We both have a little extra padding in spots where it shouldn't be, but we are healthy and enjoy our time together. We both smoke and are working on slowly cutting that nasty habit out, if you don't smoke just let us know. We try our hardest not to offend people with it and if necessary we will step outside to have a cigarette if we really need one. We are both social drinkers who enjoy getting a little tipsy if the surroundings are appropriate. We spend our weekends in the spring, summer and fall bbq'ing with friends and sitting around a fire pit relaxing after a long week. We enjoy spontaneity, but plans are just fine with us as well. He enjoys fishing, hunting, bowling, and relaxing. I enjoy fishing, bowling, photography, and spending time outdoors when all you need is a light jacket. We also enjoy camping, nights in AC and spending quality time with each other and our friends. He likes people who can take a joke and give it right back because he can tend to be sarcastic. I also enjoy people who can joke around and have a bit of a sarcastic streak as well. As for spirituality, well we are a mix of beliefs. We both tend to follow pagan practices with a belief in the afterlife. We feel everything happens for a rea and you are never given what you can't handle or learn from. I tend to be a bit more spiritual than him, but I think it's because I am female and more comfortable with my spirituality. All we ask from others is to respect our beliefs and not to try and change us, we are happy where we are at.[/B][/SIZE][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person We would like to find people who have interests outside the swing lifestyle who are looking for sincere friendships and will allow all other things to fall into place.

Primarily speaking, we want couples who feel like an extension of our family to share all kinds of fun times with. The type of people who are there when your at your best and still there when your at your worst. When your bonded like that everything else feels right and the factors are intensified. For us this would be the perfect relationship.

We are both open to different lifestyle and are willing to explore with others who are looking for the same things. We can't promise it will be our thing, but you never know until you try.

At this time I would classify ourselves as swingers. I am totally into the BDSM lifestyle as well. He on the other hand will watch, but has no desire to participate in it. So we are looking for couple willing to play in this lifestyle as well as swinging. It's not a necessary thing, but it sure would be nice.

As for the perfect woman or man, well there is none. Personality is our deciding factor followed by comfort as a close second. We are very secure in our relationship and expect those we play with to be as well. We can't help you save your marriage, you need to do that on your own before venturing into bringing others in.

If your homophobic, we might not be the couple for you. Please be comfortable with your sexuality and with us so we know where your limits are. It would be a bad thing to have actually taken that next step only to find out that something went wrong. Now you can see why friendship is the primary factor in the relationship. If your friends you can talk about things to make the next experience that much more enjoyable.

We look forward to hearing from you and building a strong lasting friendship.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Travis Tritt, Tim McGraw, Dion, Smokey Robinson, and more.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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