I'm not sure what I am looking for or expecting here. Fantasies and reality rarely meet. I'm looking for company with a discreet woman. This can be once off, or repeated, if comfortable for both. Comfort, privacy, patience and safety are priorities for me. Mutual comfort, respect and dignity are of paramount importance to me. If we were to bump into each other in unexpected circumstances, we would act as if we had never met. Privacy and separation of our 'other life' is absolutely necessary for me. I am not looking for a relationship, just company, comfort and relaxation inasmuch as that makes sense. I am married, but my spouse has no interest in sex or affection of any sort unfortunately. I do. My spouse must know nothing of this. I am no spring chicken (aging is no fun), and need someone with a little [B]patience[/B] (ie, takes a while to get hard). Just to avoid disappointment , let me reiterate, I am no longer the walking hardon of my youth and need a woman with patience to reach my full potential. Sad, but true (the hardon part, patient women are always a delight).

My Ideal Person A woman who is interested in sharing discreet company and sensitive to my concerns about privacy/secrecy.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, thigh highs!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, gentleness

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