i am a 52 year old african american woman who does not look her age. a plus sized diva secure in herself. i am turned on by a well dressed man, also construction workers and men in uniforms turn me on. i love romance, candles, wine, dinner and manners. i love people and doing things for people. and since my divorce i really do enjoy sex. i am into the one on one encounters mainly. i also love oral sex. i want to be treated with the class and utmost respect that i deserve. when i am with a man i respect him and treat him with respect and discretion in and out of the bedroom. i want the same.

My Ideal Person taller than 5'4. a little on the husky side. (only a preference not exclusively). a man willing to show a little initiative and make things very interesting. a man that has manners both in and out of the bedroom. a man that gives as well as receives.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
my most favorite sexual fantasy is a handsome man delivering something like ups or a package. i open the door, we look into each others eyes and he takes me right on the floor. or driving along the turnpike and seeing a really cute truck driver and pulling over at a rest stop or on the side of the road and making love without ever knowing each others name

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Food Play, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
morris chestnut, because i think he is the perfect blackman

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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