In the hunt for the right person, the best thing to do is to just ignore your normal impulses and repulses, and follow pure instinct. It may send you to some wrong turns and dead ends, but you'll eventually arrive at your destination. I'm a really laid back person that doesn't get excited or mad (not easily, I'm not totally impervious). I'm honest and open, enjoy life, nice to everyone, and like to have fun. Laughter keeps the heart pumping correctly. Life is meant to be experienced and explored, not just survived. It's not a journey to the grave, to arrive safely, with a perfect body. But should be screeching in sideways, with a worn out body screaming "WOW! What a ride!". I'm going to live life! How about You? To make a friend, we need at least a couple common interests and that elusive "Chemistry". We all know what it is, hard to describe and harder to find. Almost as distant as respect and courtesy. When did that go out of fashion? Must have been victim to copyright law, budget cuts and 'reality' shows. I've been told quite a bit that I look way younger than I am (usually ~22), but whether you believe that is up to you. A massive geek of various subjects and durned proud of it, have lived in Philadelphia my entire life, and try to keep in shape as well as possible. I'm not particularly into the bar scene, but I'm not adverse to going to one once in a while either. Physically, I'm 5'9", 240lbs (but muscularly, so I don't look it in the least), hairy (no apologies, I just am), Brown hair and eyes, ~6.5" long x ~2.5" around Although I'm not too great with putting it into words, I am very, VERY imaginative sex-wise, can last for hours, and would like someone likewise to share some time with. If you'd like to know more, just ask, especially if you catch me while I'm in the IMC. REAL WOMEN ONLY, I am real, and serious about meeting someone, and am so sick of spammers

My Ideal Person Why be on a site like this at all if you're not gonna even TRY to find someone worthwhile. So that said, away we go:

People who are confident happy and sane, who enjoy sensual relationships, able to relax and not worry about limits being broken.

Someone who's nice, strong of personality, knows who they truly are, with a brain on them.
Someone with a healthy sense of humour.
Someone who can be a good compliment to me and my personality (for they are separate entities ), while still able to be their own self.
Someone who can put up with my weirdness, for as weirdness goes, I revel in it.
Someone who won't try to change me or who I am deliberately. If they're the right person, changes will happen naturally on their own.
Someone not afraid to tell me off if they need to.
Someone who knows the meaning of love for love's sake.
Someone who's not afraid of new ideas or experiences.

Last and least importantly, I won't ever lie about this, physically the FISRT things I look at are eyes, lips and collarbone (yes I said collarbone), although, nice T&A (by my perception) are always appreciated.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Ayumi Hamasaki, Ringside, Gnarls Barkley, Kate Bush,
Nobuo Uematsu, Pink, Lady Sovereign, Shakira

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Probably like most straight men, multiple women at once.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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