** Update ** Well I am recently out of a long term relationship. Since I am back on the dating scene I have come back to this site. I am looking for FRIENDS first and then as much play time as we can stand. I am not looking for flings or one night stands, I want a friend as well as a playmate. We all have out issues, our hang ups, our insecurities and out problems. I am not going to put a bunch of YESes and NOs here to weed through living breathing people. I want to learn about you in per. So if you are adventurous enough to go out for a nice evening of fun, then get a hold of me. Maybe it will lead to more adventures, and more holding. (yea, it was a cheesy innuendo, hope you read it with a cheesy voice in you head)

My Ideal Person What I am looking for, that is a hard question. I mean each person you meet is different and interesting. okay, lets see, if I were to start narrowing it down into generic stereo types...I guess I will just start writing things and let it flow. Open mind, comfortable with yourself, I like all sizes of women but I prefer a little padding, hair color doesn't matter, you need to be responsible, I like conversation, dancing is fun. A sense of adventure is nice, but not necessary. It is also good to have an abundant sexual appetite. I like it when a woman knows what she wants and is able to say it, not hope that people guess what she wants. A sense of humor is an ABSOLUTE must.

I guess that wasn't the best description, but I hope it helps a little. I mean there are other things that I also look for,but we can get into that later

I could also say that although I am looking for long term friends, and friends with benefits, I also have a list of physical attributes that can make me try harder. I am not saying just a notch on the bed post, but items on the list can get a bit more effort at the beginning.